Date: July 15 2010
Lets face it when you decide to go onto an internet dating site you are going to be sceptical, I certainly was. After all it's just sad disfunctional losers who are on these sites isn't it. Except of course you are here contemplating it yourself and you are a normal person, whatever that is. The reality is that the people who are on here are just like you and tens of thousands like you all the country. Of course there are folk here that are trying to take advantage and play a game but that happens in real life also. So overall my advice is to go for it. Do be as honest as possible. We are being asked to talk about ourselves and there are obviously a whole load of things that you really should keep quiet about however for the rest of it be as open about yourself as possible. It as tempting to try and paint yourself as the most exciting thing on the planet, unless you really are that person, don't do it. By being true to the person that you are you will be more likely to attract someone who is interested in you rather than the image that you will never maintain in the long run. Right now I am more than happy with the girl that I have met from this site. It is early days but we get on like a house on fire emotionally, intellectually and physically. I think that we have been pretty honest with each other and that has been the reason that we can now start to build a relationship